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12/24/25

pi_po_password's 30 day lolita challenge

so.. i totally failed to do this over the course of 30 days , but i still wanted to fill it out !

i hope to be more on top of stuff in the future , so hopefully this new year update will set a good tone~~

My 30-Day Lolita Challenge (2026)

By: Pi_Po_Password

1. Favorite vs. Most worn Main Piece

favourite: i always have trouble choosing a favourite , but if i *had* to , i would say antique bouquet in green ! i always feel comfortable physically & emotionally in it , and i think i look my best in it . i've had some of my favourite photos and happiest times in this piece !

most worn: probably the rose gobelin & velveteen jsk by etc ! i tend to throw it on when i'm headed out for a quick errand , as it's suprisingly quite versatile in style , weather , etc ! i'm trying to be less thoughtless though , i don't want to wear this to the bone !!!!

2. Usual Hairstyle in Lolita

i wanted to try this double-loop braid style since i've done just plain dutch loops before ! i almost wanted a dark noose-like look since we were having a gothic cemetery meetup , and while it didn't really acheieve it , i like the look !!!

3. Describe your ideal high winter coordinate

while it might not seem the most "winter-y", this coordinate from last year has sort of stuck in my head as a big "winter coordinate" since i wore it in below freezing temperatures with a huge lolita coat for hours on end... you can maybe see in the pic , but i was wearing a lot of thermal stuff/socks to keep warm (i get cold easy)...LOL !

i tend to prefer neutrals during winter , and i think velvet and fluffy bloomers really give off a "warm" vibe... i'm sure i could come up with something more "winter-y", but this was my first thought !

4. Describe your ideal high summer coordinate

i still really love this blouseless near-shiro coordinate i wore when i first got this JSK ! i think pure white & blouseless coordinates can be extremely summery . i also like camisoles with skirts , but i think pure white wins here too !!! the parasol also helps with the sun~

the two coords i selected ended up being extremely similar huh !!!!!! LOL

5. A non-lolita item in your lolita wardrobe

i ended up buying this (likely) line-dancing dress in the "children's costume" section while thrifting with a friend , and it's such a beautiful piece that passes so well for lolita ! the fabric is thick and easily stands a wash , and it's nice and fluffy without a petticoat ! it feels so luxurious for a thrift store find , LOL~

southern (USA) lolitas , look for line-dancing stuff ! a lot of it can pass for lolita , or you just end up with cute pieces !!!!

6. What was the first EGL “event” you ever attended?

i kinda have 2 answers for this !!!!!!!

the first EGL-anything i attended was a convention , where i wore lolita all day (and was photographed like crazy ?!) and attended a few lolita panels , though i don't know if a convention in and of itself would be a "lolita event"..!

so... the first lolita event i attended within my community was actually a comm member's birthday party ! thinking back on it now , it was kinda awkward of me to show up to her birthday party as my first event , nobody really knew me...EEP >.>.... but everyone was extremely kind and i had a wonderful time !

7. What was the most recent EGL event you’ve attended?

a convention , again , LOL! i spent the day at a lolita photoshoot & ita bag swap meet , and i hung out with some of my best friends !!! i'm actually usually more active than this , i tend to do something about once a week , but everyone's been preoccupied with the holidays :P (and i got sick...)

hopefully by the time i've finished this , i'll have a meetup i'm co-hosting all done~

8. What is the next EGL event you plan to attend?

a fashion exhibit at a museum with my community ! i'm co-hosting with a good friend of mine , i'm really excited !!!

9. What is your “dream” or ideal Lolita event?

a luxury tea at a beautiful hotel/garden... it's a bit stereotypical , but i really love high teas and gardens and museums from the bottom of my heart , which is maybe why i'm inclined to lolita in the first place... a while ago , i visited the huntington rose garden & museum on a trip , and every single part of it was something i loved ; if i lived there , i would have hosted a meetup there !!!!

10. A coord theme you would like to try

maid/alice lolita ! i know it's "cringe" to some , but i really love the cuteness (and a bit of cheesiness) of maid lolita . i think it's a super cute style and i love aprons , but i just don't own any ! i don't take lolita as cosplay , but i think it's fun to do a more thematic coordinate !

11. Favorite Accessory

this headdress ! it's the 2001 version of the "gorgeous headdress" by metamorphose . i kinda bought it on a whim searching for a black headdress , but i wear it all the time and i've come to really treasure it . i love its simultaneous frumpiness and elegance and the double-ribbon necktie is super cute , too~~~ i think it works so well with so many outfits , but i've recently been trying to wean off my usage ever so slightly to keep this pretty old piece safe .

12. Least used accessory

probably the romantic little garden headbow that matches my JSK of the same set ... i can't stand headbands in the slightest , theyve always given me horrible headaches , and i tend to want to coordinate this dress with different pieces that just don't suit this headbow ! but i wouldn't sell it without selling the JSK , and i truly love the JSK to death even if it isn't my typical style .

i also don't really have any pieces with similar prints or even colours i could try coordinating this with... i try to make it work when i can (pic related) , but i oftentimes find myself preferring pretty much any alternative ;-;

13. Song or music you associate with Lolita

vkei's a given , isn't it (LOL)~ but i really love this song sachiko by lamp (and lots of lamp songs in general) , it has a beautiful dreamy & nostalgic (and slightly melancholic) atmosphere that gives me a similar feeling as to when i wear lolita... i listen to it over and over , and i have a bad habit of putting it on my instagram posts all the time :"3c

i naturally have to plug my favourite bands , ging nang boyz (mature themes & language warning..) & hellogoodbye - even if they don't fit the image of lolita (especially not GNB), maybe they can give some insight into what i like ?!

i really love a variety of music , so maybe i can talk about that in a future post...

14. Whats the strangest thing you have seen for sale labeled for use in Lolita?

NSFW aside , probably anime goods and stuff like that ? no hate , i'm a big lover of anime nonsense LOL~ but it's just not inherently lolita ! i also just tend to find people totally mistagging pieces as lolita when they're just normal plain clothes...

15. Most underrated piece in your wardrobe

this blouse by metamorphose ! i got it only a few months ago , but i wear it so crazy frequently !!! it seems so simple , but thats kinda what makes it great !!!! i don't actually like the sleeeves too much (i like straight sleeves , not puffy ones.. the stock image doesn't show it !) but everything else outweighs my minor issue with it . it fits so incredibly flatteringly and works perfectly both as a layering piece and as a stylish blouse on its own ! the raschel lace is super cute , the back tie helps you sinch in your waist , and it can handle a wash like a champ ! it's also super comfy and the sleeves poke out enough to work with sweaters too !!!!!!!

16. Most underrated ITEM in your wardrobe

absolutely this bag by my friend magicalgirlmortuary , it's so practical and cute , and it works with so many coordinates , especially daily looks & practical needs (class and shopping !) - it's toned down enough to not be impractical , but the cute art and lace also helps it fit with lolita !

i really love it , not an ad , but please buy her wonderful work !!!

she's also made some absolutely amazing socks i love , so please check them out too ;-;

17. Favorite activity to do in Lolita

CAFES/TEA !!!!!! i can never get enough , i love going to teas . please invite me to teas .

18. Something you need more of in your wardrobe

bags and shoes... i'm always cagey on buying them since i'm actually pretty picky , but somehow i've ended up with multiple bags with significant damage (though i was fully aware in every case)..EEP..... i want more platforms and elegant bags/purses ! especially red & brown stuff for both...

i always feel like i need more blouses too...LOL... maybe i've just deluded myself...

19. Something you need less of in your wardrobe

pink JSKs... ;-; i can't help myself , i've really enjoyed baby's classic series , but i have maybe 3-4 pink classic series dresses now...

20. Current Dream Dress and what you would pay for it

not a particularly unique answer , but i think i'd die for this cami set (especially in lavender) it really depends on when it catches me , but maybe $500USD ?......

21. Longest time you have been searching or searched for a main piece

hmm.. i mean i've been in love with elizabeth since starting my journey , so 5-6 years for her~?

22. Longest time you have been searching or searched for a non-main piece item

i think i was GOING TO GO CRAZY without a white capelet , it's been something i've been mooning since i started my journey as well !!!!! so it took 5-6 years to get my hands on this set from meta... honestly , i was just being cheap & only wanted to buy secondhand , but finally bit the bullet and it's been well-worth it..

23. Most common color in your wardrobe

i was going to say "absolutely pink" , which might be true , but i've amassed a loooot of white things that aren't only blouses ! pink might still win out , but i'm also working to get more red & brown since people say i look good in them :3c (and white because i'm shiro-obsessed...)

24. If you had to sell something TODAY what would it be?

probably this etc JSK :< i haven't worn it in over a year , and while it fits , i can't put some blouses under it.. plus it's not really my style !

25. A piece you have altered

my friend helped me alter this wirehead JSK since the one i bought was significantly larger than my measurements.. i knew it would be , i just loved the dress too much !!! it checks all my favourite things - the lovely lace , wing straps , white colour , and cross-bust ribbons... i'm super happy with it and she did an amazing job ^u^

26. A piece you have has to fix

another sizing issue... i have a lovely angel print JSK from innocent world that's severely stretched out... the shirring is all droopy , and while the front lacing hides that , it's extemely apparent in the back , and it creates a kinda awkward gap around my bust at times...

27. A piece you have stained

SEVERELY embarrassing , but i dropped some ketchup on this dress.... it's red , so it isn't too terribly bad , but i want to try and deep clean it since it can be visible at times :<

28. A piece you have JUST GOT

this innocent world headdress , like.. yesterday ! it was a gift from my secret santa~~ i haven't been able to coord it , but i'm crazy eager to wear it since i actually tried to buy it off my secret santa... so it was super kind of her to just send it my way as a gift ;-;

29. The last piece you have sold

i have no images of it i feel comfy sharing (just for both buyer/seller safety) , but it was a b/w skirt i bought many years ago ! it was offbrand , i think i got it off taobao , but it was a decent piece , just not my style or the quality i prefer nowadays :P

30. What you are wearing today!

ahhhhh i've been caught !!!! i'm wearing:

headdress: metamorphose

blouse: metamorphose

skirt: handmade (by my secret santa , thank you again !!!!!!!!!!!!!)

socks: the black ribbon

shoes: offbrand

this was really fun to fill out , and i hope it was fun to read~~

i'm hoping to update more on here , but i've been so busy as a senior undergrad that its kept me away from my blog ~u~; hopefully within the year i should be able to share more , but if not , you can find my daily goings on my instagram~